At swing dancing and just started a ship between this little boy who was so bashful as he asked this little girl to dance. Cutest thing ever.
Every once in a while I listen to shitty hip hop just for fun.
I’d like to think I do live well, aside from my selfishness. But to deny that part of me is to deny that I have personal motives or personal thoughts. My selfishness is there wether I believe in it or not, in the same way that wind exists though we cant see it. It’s there, yet I cant touch it or interact with it outside of how my brain processes the responses it provides.
In much the same way, my interaction with my selfishness is that of understanding how it interacts with me. I know it when it produces actions and feelings in me that are outside of normal (if normal is that of looking out for others rather than myself), I analyze that, and look at what those actions/thoughts produced. I then change accordingly (or at least try, sometimes).
I however, do not see my selfishness as a detriment nor do I dwell on it. But I will stay aware, so that it does not become something I wish it not to be.